有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
' N6 y, ^2 V. V我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..+ Q1 Y& `% M1 G( r6 G0 P0 C' c
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:( X4 |# M% [0 f3 X' \
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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6 h2 U( w0 o8 P4 p% C  a" U% j  hgood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me/ F# t7 o  ~# c9 x9 r4 X

4 G3 [7 N% D/ A$ i唔係好想講experience...; l, [( X. z0 s& N5 J
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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我唔係想做獨行俠,
% c. Y* |1 h- e5 J6 a8 B! R只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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6 C$ N5 T# T0 w9 p  h/ w- T我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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3 A. m! @) T! y! r' ^我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”