熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
/ d# X8 D6 A1 O  {好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 ^& F9 F- ~9 O. e4 v7 t! A
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% M/ [5 s1 s& `9 B& j: U( E
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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3 s& t2 @! t8 z- e, F9 h6 t其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" F# `$ j- ~4 D* k5 g卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 y& i! l: A- G8 {$ o! y" G( a+ @用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( ?8 e: q6 }( A4 f: a

1 H1 V' D  `& w) J$ ]( V[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,5 k5 G" W- B6 H2 h$ h
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺( k/ p# c9 K1 \/ B: h
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ @6 a- [+ R2 H
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
( y2 E1 F4 r& s; C你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 h% e1 X0 o9 l
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
/ T9 a6 i' S! d4 j! v/ I* w% E7 k: I) H感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..7 y! A1 X: n4 w* E; J2 V; K2 t+ d
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
# o7 I% X! Z5 N2 ~) l總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
2 }7 |: k8 g9 S其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 G. }# F% S/ t: o1 I所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 m$ `! ]1 E9 ?; m日日有車站,
; m9 c8 v* ^# E, M! W+ v有目標!

& E1 X+ p, Q  x6 E+ Kwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: W! f  a+ i8 X: k: u- ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 U! K$ Z, Z' g; [- E
好唔鍾意呢種感覺% w: m8 D1 J2 d: C
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* k# \- O2 v* L$ e9 K3 A
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ @; A' W$ D8 C1 L0 S4 h3 a1 d& v覺得好空虛& D( U/ l8 B8 C3 P5 U8 R1 T% _
其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 c0 }8 a3 \5 ~' X, X
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; x: s* ^- i2 S' \用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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7 x; f+ V- Z  a- y$ i7 w這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
- ]. b. H) `" y1 _# Y5 |  _唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
+ D# N4 h' q2 F8 r  e7 Q9 u有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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; N3 a( J2 o1 `9 S$ Z! I& E9 sPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:- o. Y5 H8 q" B  J# l
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long# a/ ^. t; r  N% q9 {
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.5 t' m) y* d- X! `
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.. m% I7 H4 m+ x
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Just another thought on lonliness:+ t0 s# a1 t. F; ]
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
4 }# x- b8 Z9 I2 ]$ EBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～' D5 E  ]7 I9 ?2 ]5 Y* f7 F
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺( j5 r/ o" i4 v! c8 K+ b
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
2 F8 N3 I' x  N8 j6 G或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～3 ~* i2 F) O$ Z1 o& v
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 x, i! o$ s7 c' h  j
很少會超過一天～; g4 Z+ w+ C, V1 d7 p; M- }; Y
要期待更好的明天呀！