熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 G) q% h) A( w: @9 \
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# e; c- Z: ~% ^' j' O% V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; u$ s( |! U7 z7 ^4 R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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" G2 W( |5 F4 U  Y. e其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ B9 N% h# l& r" o% G
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, N$ A  D. j0 F) Z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% w: o6 ~, g! M2 X# d5 H' c
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
1 T) H9 y* [7 ~3 g! I2 E2 a* ^: n/ E/ `熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," B& J; ?2 G! x. g
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,- U' Z5 C: A' Z  d- X3 H' R
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙* z' O* w' ]' U' c* |9 e
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, w4 K4 S$ y" B如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.) j6 N5 t/ g* M; n; q
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
6 G: h" J  ~# w. s4 y玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
, o8 Y2 H/ P1 m3 b總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:2 C7 F9 J( G  h
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 j. ~' b0 d: D所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; J, n8 a' {+ o3 X5 T: T日日有車站,
1 X  F/ R3 |0 ~% |' v5 P有目標!

! v4 X' d4 Q2 m0 G8 V- swhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ W0 {1 G; D0 m6 u* m" w* E
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ I% Q; O, B+ S; r
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' H/ [" ?* F, t: E$ \- }% q& v琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 V( `' c: U' [' j" b4 i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 V1 ~  X% R. K* K$ A
覺得好空虛
+ [- e9 j1 x" M6 g0 h6 l+ q其實早幾次都有試過係咁" x1 M7 F# [8 T$ w5 t, _) y# F
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己0 p- v/ i4 \1 r
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! I& l4 C4 D! c# f) [. u( n$ N2 C

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
. a% m7 m" `+ h9 H$ A, _8 V$ K& Q5 b1 ~$ C唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ v  _- j: X. f  E; Y6 h- e1 V
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:8 c6 g$ F* q! S+ ?' Z/ x
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long. v- Z" L# Q' \
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
5 B3 a( ]3 C, `4 U# w  T& S( Oc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess./ O$ }0 g( t6 a+ T) ^; L
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Just another thought on lonliness:! c- p( A( h. x
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....6 R5 K6 ?3 H; M2 B4 a/ J# s
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
2 M# z  A1 R. x7 D我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
. N7 q! i2 F( G就好似睇完一套好睇的電影6 w) y: q* _2 k: [; r0 E) j
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～. H7 l( E1 i1 B! Z
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉8 D& V% e' h5 W0 q' M+ B
很少會超過一天～
/ w0 d; W; g: T要期待更好的明天呀！