熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 I7 H! P5 r0 S- H# [. T( B: N
好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ {& j7 U8 _. l0 D3 {0 L/ o
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% ?9 |4 n* c! E$ z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ J8 X3 c- P6 {! @4 L覺得好空虛
# |1 q; _0 _# r1 Q$ Z0 {* B其實早幾次都有試過係咁& j; q$ {7 G. Q4 Y. {* ]7 o% j/ ~7 C
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ _/ b/ X) n2 Q: ~用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% R: h1 R; C6 l+ w6 L+ k) d1 x
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,9 B& S. y% D7 m1 L
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
0 [3 ]0 C& Z) N熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. k0 o  k/ t* [2 T( ^0 r所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; w, p; X9 W! g: G0 k, A- Q: A
日日有車站,6 G/ P8 A, s) D
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙. d1 M3 p  {. b7 f# l8 V: ?
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( H* ~5 s: L" S, c$ G+ N如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶./ G3 m- N9 j& Z$ w
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞../ n7 S! D7 E) R, l% m0 I: o
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.% ^1 D5 f: m0 _2 b7 k; a* ^. W5 _; e
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
) a7 o5 N; `$ C% g3 R( @其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ _& _; s' v2 z" u- Z' L$ F
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
* m+ E8 M+ `( k, ]日日有車站,
3 F! K* O7 Y  n3 E" i2 c& R有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; d4 N. d. g1 O- G, q/ g$ @
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. o, L/ W3 F4 s* @- q0 |$ F5 ]$ [. \好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: I6 k1 K$ a) g+ C- D! r) I' ~" h琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; S# S- A8 ~( S; n6 G
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣& C+ z/ a6 g" v2 f. E& p
覺得好空虛3 V% y* g) r- H  ?
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# o% }( ]& F" {; R1 h
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! F$ g3 t' s  V
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.* e& d5 h9 P1 l' U3 B7 P1 \/ x$ r
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
, X5 D& T2 k, W% w有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
6 Z/ U. @! Q% G( T+ Pb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
& o0 G: ?1 y6 h# m! ?: Vc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.0 z! x) u$ }: u1 i3 k6 h
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Just another thought on lonliness:
; l: L1 {+ w( s+ P& R8 M& `7 w/ ]Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....( n( h$ y- ?* j) \$ \' ?
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～8 w8 V4 L" q! Y& X& B. ]# F
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
# r) e/ j7 T9 u4 |5 q% ^( n就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
# t6 }4 E. y8 Q1 ]) M& J: o" I或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
# L0 T& i) E' ?6 S/ l! x! e空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
- I, `# d6 D- ]5 N4 F2 N很少會超過一天～
( _+ W0 \( \! ~$ V# O+ f0 O要期待更好的明天呀！