有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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) E: N9 w- p# F# I7 r4 x: L感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..& t' A( P7 J! s. j  E9 F; ^
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..
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john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:+ Z. G2 G; N8 L* o
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me, j' X$ k$ V. {7 X; a; {' g

* E" M! ^- W2 e- {  I+ F/ x6 K唔係好想講experience...9 \2 y( }7 R4 D8 z

6 e3 o- U: c1 d% b. Y- P不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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# V3 l) R, m7 H' a1 O/ A我唔係想做獨行俠,
7 v- ^* i8 Z$ }* N# L只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.7 e5 l2 Q2 U! w6 G0 ^9 U1 e* S
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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係呀！
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