大家樂1234

勸佢收手
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
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" {9 ~: W& Y* W; @; n5 Y0 Z8 E1st, how close the relationship we are?
, Y4 A. G" w  r& i* _0 m2nd, how serious he/she has done?
4 E) Z4 @) E) V% f0 D/ b! ^3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
& `: c) l; `5 q% j7 G* y1 W; {4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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for me:
. k& p- r# T8 T- e8 T2 Ki may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.! N" e- N. C  Z% x& Q2 k
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
* J4 ^  V3 m: T9 sbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。' M3 r: ?% J' G6 q7 n5 q- E: b
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
, B5 Q6 @- l% U: R人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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