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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
* O7 y8 F5 s$ t2 _consider in the following (not in order):
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7 M2 x* j6 o: ?$ V1st, how close the relationship we are?4 U( D' r' c) }. A
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
8 F# o: g( t8 A5 @# h5 T6 _3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
2 a$ C* k+ G8 e! L" h) A4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?5 A; P5 i; a; O* v$ T
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for me:9 C3 L2 B! M% k9 k: X5 ~2 e
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
( X3 j& _# o* E7 b9 k4 Dbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
( V" x" W- u" ^! f' n8 n- I5 p- zbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
& G. n, E' m& r- w6 x) i第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
' h/ @6 w0 S( r5 g; ^2 `人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個1 R! I- w" T# B/ y
只要有數我都會滅