熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?& x9 e5 F' H/ w' k* p, T+ a, H, C
好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 B9 L1 O" ?* I/ ]- n
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! U6 g" e( ~3 E. j: ^: u& ^! Q+ S& k0 k個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 f6 o' s, b2 G# |' \, F. S覺得好空虛$ L8 e7 \" |$ q3 U. v; A
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 i8 Y" T4 V- a9 x! v0 |$ H7 w卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  M& x* U9 @' ^) ~( i$ T; W2 z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 W& S9 y; ?2 Q# N* R7 V' C

- G- U  g) m$ |[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,+ ?6 p7 p, J. P# R" x4 x4 y3 b
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
! R% I* T7 U! \5 D9 o" A熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% {7 y- G0 z9 h0 _1 `! t8 s/ J
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ g$ \  i7 C2 L6 G* A! i
日日有車站,5 j$ ^% L+ w. O- u" F
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
* H1 ^: R1 |3 _" r+ G, ]( `( z你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( K4 n6 p; a: Q4 R0 I
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

3 o0 f: Z1 a% H6 e我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
/ e) x% p* |6 a7 ~' h/ l" f5 t感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..$ `9 G6 J/ A0 ^, x; O6 K
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.) z. {. k+ F' \7 g. V
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:0 g* u) C; Z. L
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% @0 {6 J: e9 @; C: q- f" f所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( u% t* u+ g" l  a3 e
日日有車站,4 n; r' Z# G$ g# c5 r7 q7 W
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:7 K: b% u: X8 ]9 H
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?& C; @. _8 t# z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺; w; `4 b/ [! S
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ a( m% B1 k& k  ~5 k
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 G) i0 ]- ^+ V: Z& t
覺得好空虛
# T1 A' k0 P+ K. `/ s8 F. i0 d其實早幾次都有試過係咁5 h6 i& d# ^- j/ x, E  Q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
: Z; P0 b) y) [; ^& }' w3 Y用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
* G0 }0 X7 o% l/ e

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
7 I1 L- K" ?* d0 l9 D唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
6 l$ D, F8 z7 ~, P" e% O, P8 s1 [有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.; S) @5 a# A7 F: A; u7 m+ v0 Z
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
7 \  C8 r" d0 i3 [0 Y) |a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long' a" ]1 m; n/ L& [) F5 o* ]7 y
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
8 `& Q/ O1 Q4 w( ^7 Oc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.- `  h# Q$ }1 p6 r

4 x& @. [2 @/ o5 B% `6 zJust another thought on lonliness:
: b3 N$ I, Y" M% BLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
1 D1 Y0 X6 k3 C; S5 @But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
! @( D2 V/ U: l2 J- q" T; |* y6 I9 W我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
8 T6 @1 M& W; ]5 I就好似睇完一套好睇的電影6 O8 N" ?2 ?2 v$ }  O' r! r! L# g
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
* g; \; K/ N8 ~; _) H5 U. _! E空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
7 P5 G  C- j! b: H5 V3 g很少會超過一天～
9 \* G$ U% R3 G1 x6 S# }6 |要期待更好的明天呀！