熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?" s( W+ I- u7 G) n9 d
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  V" E; \$ k4 h6 x' ]4 k1 n* B# C琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# g8 B$ b3 v( y4 F# c個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 W; k- H" z+ c! d0 Y# g覺得好空虛, f) a( R4 {" z& z  [4 C
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 g7 G; F* Y  ]7 \卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己8 h. z  o- s3 v
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,- E/ z# x: G; O- [
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* t- ?# B/ k( U9 Z" e. Z
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. l/ M" C5 N& N! q7 g$ o  x所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 R* |" z. ?! @( r; r3 p2 H3 @) b$ O
日日有車站,
1 u) R4 r0 i8 V0 ^, h+ y有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
( `2 w' c5 ]; ?. N  C你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ L' p0 O$ n( P( N/ g5 _如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.1 F( I6 v7 W! ]$ ^  U
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
$ A8 q( _1 e7 c1 ?. X5 E玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 a8 ]% R. |5 s) \
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
9 W" c/ i6 }% S6 p7 o其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
5 g, P3 c! y* L( {' t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
' B% K1 I" Y  f  p日日有車站,1 P# Q5 B8 P. f- P
有目標!

# m  A! ^7 b. @; p* Owhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ c* ^0 L, Q2 C4 C4 {
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 E( o9 |4 D6 n$ x# b) J  e' D
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 O! O* ]2 W3 X- w4 X5 e; m5 R4 |琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 W' ~7 \6 y7 G5 V5 k2 V. a
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) k8 F+ n6 Q# u6 Q  G
覺得好空虛
+ E% A1 V( l$ s9 S其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! s$ P3 Z) c" S# m卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" |/ r# d/ m" h+ k用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# x5 X+ e, }( j$ g* @4 ~

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0 G3 }1 q% k1 a/ M這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦." R% Y2 B7 A& K: L: n" R8 Z5 X
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
. f" ~* o8 U9 I3 J5 h' D有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
; t6 }9 f. O3 \8 J5 v1 Q, E8 wa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long, Z9 R4 Q- R& K' h0 p. T
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.4 V/ Z! ^. \0 V; ]7 l+ w0 }1 T
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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: d( E+ |/ L) m+ ]( A: e( h4 [Just another thought on lonliness:1 \% O! {( D* U1 z1 m2 E* m
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
0 S  ~2 W( v, g) _) oBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～' W: H; ]$ W- @
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺9 M& k! q0 n5 j) F, p# x  X
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影8 w- o0 F& {( A) W
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
) j8 Q" Z3 _1 n' V, a2 B空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
; y* Q2 V2 M* g- c+ O1 Y! [  P# i很少會超過一天～
, ~: x  _7 i* S+ b. u要期待更好的明天呀！