熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# j5 `6 q! a. V
好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 k$ \' [% g- m$ _4 y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' s4 y0 W8 F. g% ^6 `3 O) z9 Z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; {) w! o. N) L' Q覺得好空虛9 \  f  V  x- C+ X
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
# Q/ l0 O" v1 D* q' `( Y0 G卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 ^) `6 j8 G0 e  p& e1 U
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
% @( A' C9 j) e7 V! @但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺# k$ @$ v. Z6 i) u! t; I& D
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, Z3 s# P/ U6 K: N所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( p3 Y3 p, G# }. J
日日有車站,
: w  I% N  Q3 X有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
$ ^$ `7 Y9 i/ R  l你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" C: G+ _* h' K7 `! g9 q% f* d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.# v' x# h3 `! Q" _; I( |8 t- s
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
8 D! o' K* @6 f6 d6 G玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
$ n2 ^( [% H  r  c+ ?! W總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
1 G- u4 C  f. P5 ?# P) f其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ R$ A1 J+ h7 }
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. k9 ~8 `1 z+ \* y( k+ h日日有車站,
0 N4 @  G" @! d# \有目標!

4 R4 k  b2 f, K/ q2 u& h) I2 ~2 n- fwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:: }8 e4 G+ k! \+ S4 S
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
  N5 q0 t1 ^6 \, v3 Z- `( S好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ Z1 d$ v8 M6 f- T8 ]# T琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 l$ R- L% I: [  \& P; ^$ z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- |/ W  e6 O  v2 T, E5 v覺得好空虛6 |5 }5 Z. ]. N: e; B$ x) y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁! o3 {$ J4 r+ R8 s
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 |" f; p1 |  b2 x6 i: C
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. p4 X) O2 k" D7 u

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: X* S+ f2 d7 r5 x這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.' v$ t/ q5 S' |' R
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
6 m: Y7 v5 F! c5 g有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own./ L9 j: \/ h5 P/ T+ o

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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long+ @4 t4 u. O" x! K. W' s9 b
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
& ?9 q# Y/ q& ^+ r4 oc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.1 n' p8 s9 z+ V. }8 l

2 z4 @  `' P& z- p; }5 ^$ }Just another thought on lonliness:6 A$ M4 P  r. u6 S5 S9 q
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....." a% `2 C8 m, J
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～) [, ?* X) \" p# ]- ?( l4 [4 d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
% u' d% ]2 H% k  Y1 t% m0 J就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
8 W! j* G! w7 Z6 _+ ^2 g! H或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～# j& d) E8 e$ m9 r
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
# g7 \4 U- ~1 y; c9 f) Y很少會超過一天～
" @; e! F% U9 R要期待更好的明天呀！