Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:/ M5 a: s7 E* Q. |8 ]+ {. a
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:6 G6 {+ b ^/ v+ @
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:5 ]( z0 V3 o+ N/ \! J0 G0 y% D' j. N
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:# N) x( F2 d( M* F( H1 U
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.0 ?2 Q, S4 {8 h; y( E! c
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:. H: d1 P$ u H, g
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:5 p7 `' u1 w7 _, b
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友( f' j: w1 I' ], B$ v6 |# j
我要講既只有咁多
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:$ c6 o; L1 O& _9 y2 @9 B0 @" C% h) `* H
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:' P9 `2 [) E0 b# A0 o% Q0 m
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:
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Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:9 g. y! [) q: z4 g# V
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我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??* c6 A6 j- D/ f" A
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至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........! o! X4 V. v7 K
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:8 P; v5 g, n( R* W, M5 m' {
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:5 {1 W: W, ?* x; J
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。4 O; C+ T( `5 v, Q
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:8 F8 X. U. c- x6 o
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方* h' m6 e7 Z) ]9 P1 M
因為26FUN內 d 網友 ) @1 R' v2 l1 ]7 u+ ~) S
雙對黎講,- @( C5 S( ]* t' {# S0 m9 d" L
比較成熟,
交流比較深入6 n0 ^: j* n4 s+ C2 g1 S% g
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:7 a! L8 }& s1 G: T/ u
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因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
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唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友% s' S' F# x7 X/ K i! a; V
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一個傻左,3 I: W8 _- D* w: }* b
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:0 L$ x/ ^: w& h1 q. ~* h
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:
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trista 講出我心底話!: e* w- T! a) h) w
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加分!個個都加分!+ s: ~- W! g" D0 G' N8 o. E
唔理版主定會員都加分!
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?9 c3 M+ y* K4 G) i
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:; p/ L |5 g' l8 D, f1 k
講真啦0 W# T9 \7 e; J, I0 Q
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^2 I+ N4 R( H2 m, P: [; k
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雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:
(小弟的愚見)0 X1 l% }8 ~* Y* v, Z" L* [5 \& p
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!5 P- q4 n9 ~ [5 i
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!' Q! S' w0 y9 h- Z/ U6 ~# n
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!. x6 F1 R7 T# V
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:6 Q% V( X! [ f4 w; q0 s
以經濟學黎計算:4 c$ i8 L* F" G" n" _5 j. p: u
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
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認識朋友的意義各有不同。( Y2 ~, F5 w- h/ Y6 V7 i8 ]+ R5 S: O
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?$ R9 f1 I& J5 _0 O' b, g
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:
當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:, B( T7 L9 |" c
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。& b+ ?" }. q2 S4 F: B4 U f$ B
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:& s/ ^3 ^; J3 H4 G# I, b J, V
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下8 \3 C7 C: |9 r! Y0 I( o
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:/ Z, n+ C2 E0 |; q; a
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~# h% D) T% k, F0 M3 T' }6 j
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!, s, s: Y h% R/ {: ]0 {' R- r$ f
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!7 Q( f. ?) _) Q) b/ e3 j) I
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:% S: o3 n8 |0 m0 s! Y# V5 y7 c
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~) d, q4 |+ R- X: @2 a1 V
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM: l4 S! F4 O1 M& U
我喺ef都唔算好耐~1 O; [8 o4 x% \, q
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:
好同意。。
的而且確,有時候。。
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯” 8 B; W/ g5 g* o
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:9 ~; L# Y5 n, z' [7 N% h
自己醒d未得 law
Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:5 L9 u! [: O1 ~4 Q& V1 i- m. @
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:4 _$ i" n' `8 ?: |
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一段長時間建立友誼9 R, i H( |$ R; S3 ]# s
一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。
合久必分,分久必合。) A: Y8 F3 C+ `; F! c$ [5 X
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大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:5 t _- A& r3 F+ `! w8 l
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮5 h s5 \7 Q& f2 r
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:" h8 E V t. {3 m& J
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不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:
抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:
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見係好野先"參考"咋
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
很認同
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