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作者: kgkgkg212121 時間: 2006-12-29 06:42 PM 標題: 發展得太快係咪唔好呢??

而家追緊果個女仔就同學黎ge
平時o係學校都傾到幾句,又間中msn傾下
大概2個禮拜前開始同佢sd下sms,上個禮拜開始有打俾佢傾下電話咁
有時佢都會打下俾我la,傾ge野都好多,佢好多野都同我講
好似發展得好快咁...

呢幾日有d想同佢講,但諗返起,由開始追佢時到而家我諗大約2個禮拜...
係咪太快呢??
我係咪應該遲下先講呢??
thz~~

作者: hold_find 時間: 2006-12-29 06:50 PM

正所謂"易來易去"，太快真係唔好

作者: sega2hk 時間: 2006-12-29 06:58 PM

比多d時間自己去認識人地同比多d時間比人地認識
如果其實大家都唔o岩key gei 一齊左都唔會開心

作者: kalos 時間: 2006-12-29 07:04 PM

Originally posted by sega2hk at 2006-12-29 20:58:
比多d時間自己去認識人地同比多d時間比人地認識
如果其實大家都唔o岩key gei 一齊左都唔會開心

Totally agree, I know my fiancee from 3 months before we start, but we still fight often...
We were very well at that 3 months time, but once started, arguements came...

Try n c for 2 more weeks at least, so that you won't think it's too rush and make sure she has feeling with you, it is very important to c if she really has feeling to you.

Moreover, if you go too quick, she might think that you're a playboy, Good Luck my fd~

作者: cyc1 時間: 2006-12-29 07:04 PM

Originally posted by kgkgkg212121 at 2006-12-29 06:42 PM:
而家追緊果個女仔就同學黎ge
平時o係...

呢個進度好正常,唔算太快;你除夕晚約佢單獨出嚟,如果佢應約同你一齊"倒數"即係表示你應該掂囉,到時响咁嘅氣氛下,如果你真係有feel,表態都好正常,宜家又唔係即刻要打"車輪",可以拖吓手仔出吓街,大家了解吓都得咖~~

[ Last edited by cyc1 on 2006-12-29 at 07:18 PM ]

作者: kgkgkg212121 時間: 2006-12-29 07:24 PM

Originally posted by cyc1 at 2006-12-29 07:04 PM:

呢個進度好正常,唔算太快;你除夕晚...

咁又係
我約佢除夕,佢就未應承... 好似仲諗緊咁
我都未好確實答到我...

作者: kgkgkg212121 時間: 2006-12-29 07:27 PM

Originally posted by kalos at 2006-12-29 07:04 PM:

Totally agree, I know my fiance...

明白了~

作者: chong2002 時間: 2006-12-29 07:47 PM

了解一下大家先啦~!!
太快通常都無好結果...

作者: trunks 時間: 2006-12-29 11:01 PM

無話快定慢既... 兩個人合得黎, 快係應該ge, 我反而覺得應該把握機會tim...

作者: pc20001103b 時間: 2006-12-29 11:42 PM

講到呢樣....真係有d心酸
舊年會考後去左新學校,10月開始追個女仔,11月中得左手
係之前我問過佢有冇男朋友果d,佢話散左,而且係個幾月前既事
所以我先全力追
點知太快果然冇好結果,

12月頭佢個ex係外國番黎,
因為太快,同佢冇咩感情基礎,
佢就咁就同番個ex一齊

作者: 雷鳴仁 時間: 2006-12-30 02:15 AM

Originally posted by pc20001103b at 2006-12-29 11:42 PM:
講到呢樣....真係有d心酸
舊年會考後...

brother 唔好咁傷心 !! 女死女還在 !!
其實哩家野都無咩常理可言...
我同我女友...由相識到拍拖都唔夠一個禮拜...
到而家都拍左年幾lu~~
最緊要猜到佢個心係點 !!!
不過你要明白 , 唔單上男人拍拖前拍拖後係2個樣 ( d女人話ge... )
就算d女人都係一樣....拍拖前都係千依百順...拍拖後就....
u lum u !! 你諗你 !!!

作者: silveryuki 時間: 2006-12-30 10:15 AM

係唔好呀

作者: 卡娃兒 時間: 2006-12-30 10:58 AM

我都覺得再了解下先囉~講真而加同拍拖後真係完全唔同~唔好咁急~

作者: hugh090702 時間: 2006-12-31 01:18 AM

有時就係因為有新鮮感
so發展得好快...無真正了解對方
最後因為新鮮感一齊左,過耐左先發覺大家有好多地方都唔岩

作者: hkcchk 時間: 2006-12-31 01:27 AM

it is better to give more time to understand each other before getting too close !

作者: supereason 時間: 2007-1-2 10:41 AM

我覺得其實不算太快的，如果你喜歡她，那就快點展開追求攻勢了，否則被人橫刀奪愛就大件事了…

作者: buengland 時間: 2007-1-2 01:07 PM

我覺得如果你喜歡一個人 / 欣賞一個人

你可以直接同佢講, 吾駛忌諱咁多

你地宜家係朋友關係, 你都可以多一點讚美佢, 可以慢慢咁/逐步表示你對佢既欣賞, 之後可以開始表示你對佢既感情, 呢段期間又可爭取機會認識下對方, 睇下感覺自然吾自然, 同大家夾吾夾

當然even 你認識佢半年, 你對佢性格價值觀都係一知半解, 咁都吾提議你追佢

但有啲人認識較短時間, even 3,4week 相處起來都覺得好自然, 舒服, 吾駛格硬揾話題...
咁我得可以慢慢表示俾佢知

樓上好多兄弟對感情認真我都好欣賞

但當你考慮追女仔時, 可以唸唸其實even 一個friend 識左2年, 到同佢拍拖時可以係2 個人, 因為直到你同佢做bf gf 關係, 有啲野 (eg. 佢既本性, etc..... 對拍拖既attitude) 都係要同佢拍拖時先會知到

所以我覺得吾需要刻意要等一年半截, (當然如果你真係有好深既認識先拍拖, 你地既感情foundation 一定好好, 我都congratulates 你) 但如果係你地相處既日子(短側2-3week) 你都覺得性格、品格係好, 同你地相處感覺好自然, 大家又有啲feel, 不防可以慢慢表示, 好處如下:

1) 先向佢慢慢表示, 等佢知道你喜歡佢 (remember 開始皆段, 你可以俾佢知你對佢有好感, 但千祈吾好攪到好似個承諾咁, 即係話其實朋友間表示欣賞, 好感 even 表示你喜歡(like)佢吾係啲咩shameful 事......

咁樣起碼你會係佢心中運轉一陣子, 佢會唸下你, 但係係自自然然, 輕輕鬆鬆咁唸起你對佢既讚美同欣賞, 佢亦知佢係你心中有少少位置...... 好可能佢會因為咁對你產生一啲感覺都未定, 就算最後吾合適, 佢都會覺得你係吾會si si suk suk, 喜歡人時左閃右避果啲無鬼用既人, 佢都會欣賞你啲...起碼可以做返個朋友

2) 之後正路嚟計, 就算當時佢吾係對你有太大興趣或感覺, 佢都吾會抗拒同你friend, 吹下水, 傾下計, 分分鐘你約佢佢都肯應約, 咁你咪同佢好朋友咁發展law, 再慢慢表示

當你慢慢表示時 (吾好急到壓力佢), 佢心裡就會有左證據證明你鍾意佢, 咁佢就會有空間得閒時唸下你, 唸下你會吾會係佢另一半既合適人選

俾啲空間佢唸下, even 未必覺得適合, 但如果你吾迫佢, 吾俾咁大pressure 佢, 佢都會覺得甜的 (女仔俾人追, 又吾駛承諾) 佢都會開心的

3) 如果一切順利, 你覺得佢都無乜話刻意回避你, 就可以大展半腳, 用盡你生平所學追佢, 呢個時候就可以採取非常積極的攻勢, 大膽, 吾好怕衰, 花多啲心思, 俾多啲誠意, 同時將你最好的一面俾佢睇...令佢覺得你係值得佢為你付出感情的

咁我覺得成功機會好大

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