one case..if your gf is pretty...but u r very common..and she seems to have a better career than yours and you know that she deserve another bd that is better than you.
however, u love her..and most importantly, she said she is willing to be with you in any situation...
wht will u do?
[by trista : SORRY rockhand ,我唔小心按錯掣扣你5分﹐我已經o係第二度加返你10
Then congratulations, you’ve got a girl friend who really loves you. I don’t want my girl friend to love me just because I’ve money.
However, what I’d do:
a. upgrade myself, work harder, get a better job so I can offer her a better life and,
b. treat her as good as I possibly can
One of my friend came from a rich family. He is not handsome but had a pretty girlfriend. But after his father has gone bankrupt, she dumbed him immediately. How's that?!!
[ Last edited by trista_cheong on 2005-6-2 at 12:22 PM ]作者: adelino 時間: 2005-6-1 11:59 PM
努力去增值自己！咁樣做並唔係為左個女朋友，而係為左自己！
一個人可以咩都無，但唔可以無自信！而自信，就係自己既學識、經歷、經驗所得出黎既！
所以，要留得住女朋友既心！首先要清楚自己！了解自己！正所謂：知己知彼，百戰百勝！
當你有學問喇！有才幹喇！怕咩無女朋友丫！
再講，到你既眼界開始望得遠果陣！就會無形中吸引到異性架喇！Lee d 就係所謂既魅力喇！作者: chenfeng 時間: 2005-6-2 01:13 AM
你個gf 咁愛你……點解要因為覺得自己唔夠好、或者覺得自己唔deserve 佢對你咁好而放棄呢? 其實好多brother 都已經講左唯一 o既辦法出來: 就係努力d 做好自己、充實自己、從而提升番你 o既自信同能力都去到佢 o既level~!! 如果你就咁容易放棄，咁點得住 o個位對你咁好、咁愛你 o既女朋友? 唔好錯過、放棄佢呀brother，你要努力令自己up to that level，唔好辜負佢!!!!作者: johnwu 時間: 2005-6-2 03:12 AM
True love is not about looks or money or career.
These things come and go.
You're lucky if you have such perfect gf who also love you.
I know sometime it's hard for the male ego when your gf seems to have better career than you. So work hard and try your best. In this morden world, it is possible that your other half will make more money than you. However, money is just money, there are a lot of things that money can't buy. The best things in life are free.作者: yyy007 時間: 2005-6-2 09:03 AM
i just cant stand my gurl eing so much better than me. i totally believe everyone has their own "level" of gurls that they should go for. If my gurl has such higher standard than i do that will gimme a lot of pressure. Rather than upgrading myself, maybe i will find some other ways that i will feel more comfortable with. I will not go out with a gurl who makes me feel crappy about myself.作者: tenglok 時間: 2005-6-2 09:05 AM
我覺得呢一個情況下,自己應該好感動,條女肯同自己咁樣講,已經証明佢唔嫌棄自己,真係愛自己,所以作為男方,雖然普通,但也應該努力上進去令自己變得不普通!當然,前題係呢一個階段都係好辛苦,基本上,唔係好多男性可以忍受到同一個比自己叻ge女性一齊,所好都要好主觀地睇一點,你是否能夠忍受在你變得比佢強之前的一種自卑感,因為要變強,並唔係一朝一夕的事,話唔埋要三,五,七年.真係要忍得到.
當然,你如果無自卑感的話,完全無問題,你愛佢,佢又愛你.幾好.
如果真係無信心可以忍受得到,又或者無自信會變得比佢強.咁你就不如放手,因為你唔愛佢.作者: today2028 時間: 2005-6-2 11:48 AM
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