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作者: conversekita 時間: 2005-8-9 08:12 PM 標題: 點樣幫到佢!?

最近~
我仲意既女仔~佢既父母成日鬧交
父親仲對佢魚黎魚差~完全無家庭溫暖~
大至係咁~
佢有咩唔開心都會同我講ge
但我真係唔知同佢講咩好~點樣幫到佢.....

作者: slwong3 時間: 2005-8-9 08:39 PM

just conform her more
I suggest you not to do anything to with her family....you would probably make it even worse...
just let her parents solve the problem by themselves

作者: dg666 時間: 2005-8-9 08:48 PM

唔.... 我都見唔少這些家庭問題... 你介紹那個女仔給我認識吧,等我幫她.

haha,講笑,你多點關心她啦,她現咩都和你講,快點追她啦.不然給人追左你就死.
家庭問題好難幫,她父母你管不了.你最多令她開心點,等她覺得有人關心她,還有改變她的消極方法.

作者: 周衡 時間: 2005-8-9 09:49 PM

人地屋企既事你真係好難幫到既,你其實已經幫左佢最大既忙,就係聽佢訴苦

作者: conversekita 時間: 2005-8-9 10:25 PM

Originally posted by dg666 at 2005-8-9 08:48 PM:
唔.... 我都見唔少這些家庭問題... 你...

你講啲野我都明白~
我都知
但我想知實際要點做呀~
追過架啦~佢唔想拍拖wor~唔想再受傷害~

作者: conversekita 時間: 2005-8-9 10:27 PM

Originally posted by 周衡 at 2005-8-9 09:49 PM:
人地屋企既事你真係好難幫到既,你其實已經幫左佢最大既忙,就係聽佢訴苦

係lor~唉. > >.．.．>

作者: conversekita 時間: 2005-8-9 10:28 PM

Originally posted by slwong3 at 2005-8-9 08:39 PM:
just conform her more
I suggest you not to do anything to with her family....you would probably make it even worse...
just let her parents solve the problem by themselves

唔知點安慰佢~x心佢~
如果同佢講電話~佢講野會唔係好自在
係短信就咩都同我講~

作者: research2005010 時間: 2005-8-9 10:51 PM

轉去佢個台, 日日免費短訊lor

作者: conversekita 時間: 2005-8-9 10:59 PM

Originally posted by research2005010 at 2005-8-9 10:51 PM:
轉去佢個台, 日日免費短訊lor

有時sd完俾佢~佢唔覆~唔通仲sd???
如果佢sd俾我~一定會覆佢lor

作者: research2005010 時間: 2005-8-9 11:34 PM

唔係唔覆你, 不過返緊工就唔可以成日拿住部電話send SMS, 返緊學都唔得, 咁樣想會不會開心d?

作者: 藍 時間: 2005-8-10 12:26 AM

同我個case一模一樣,我女朋友又係成日因為屋企問題搞到吾開心
我自己就覺得家家有本難念的經,自己女友都係甘話,好難插只手落去,我宜家做既,都係盡可能多d關心佢,有咩就同佢傾,開解佢,盡量吾好比佢有機會亂諗野甘咯
關心有好多種既,吾一定話要傾電話或者msg架,就你個case,你得閒可以約下佢出下去拉(佢肯同你講心事,應該都幾熟拉?),又或者有時甚至可以去到佢屋企樓下,叫佢落黎,同你坐埋一面傾下計又得,咩方法都好,我覺得都係要比返d warm既感覺佢,你能力許可的話,甚至可以教下佢點野諗野,等佢吾好成日都覺得點點點而搞到吾開心,不過呢個就要睇你自己拉,一個吾好會弄巧反拙

作者: gundamman678 時間: 2005-8-10 11:18 AM

我以前女友個屋企又係咁，佢個老豆痴線既，當正自己係皇帝，當老婆仔女係奴婢!

咁有乜方法幫到佢呢? 我既經驗係呢個方法:

追佢啦! 咁好既時機都唔追佢，仲等幾時?? 佢既家庭問題就係俾你入位去關心佢既大好機會! 每逢佢有唔開心，你就俾d理性分析加感性關心過佢~~ 咁佢就會覺得你係個關心佢同可以照顧佢既人囉~~

至於佢既家庭問題，老實講，我讀social work既，我覺得一個普通人係幫唔到另一個人去解決家庭問題。家庭問題始終要由家庭成員共同解決的。你可以做的，我相信是對佢同屋企人既問題俾d意見，例如佢點樣去支持佢媽咪，點樣去同老豆溝通......但更重要的，就是你俾佢多d關心同支持。你係真心既話，佢係會感受到的~~

[ Last edited by gundamman678 on 2005-8-10 at 11:19 AM ]

作者: conversekita 時間: 2005-8-11 12:31 AM

Originally posted by 藍 at 2005-8-10 12:26 AM:
同我個case一模一樣,我女朋友又係成日...

明白明白~但今日發生件好炎重既事情丫
佢個fr(女)都知道左佢家庭有問題~我話佢知ge
佢去左個女仔home揾佢~
個女仔見到佢知后~無理佢~自己一個出左去
之后~佢個fr打俾佢!問佢去邊
佢話去行街~使唔使陪你呀~
佢話唔使丫~
仲之態度好差啦€
佢連fr都唔理啦~死啦~~

作者: conversekita 時間: 2005-8-11 12:32 AM

Originally posted by gundamman678 at 2005-8-10 11:18 AM:
我以前女友個屋企又係咁，佢個老豆痴...

係~羅~人地家事~無理由插手的~

作者: 藍 時間: 2005-8-11 12:39 AM

Originally posted by conversekita at 2005-8-11 12:31 AM:

明白明白~但今日發生件好炎重既事情...

甘你呢個時候多d action拉,就算吾係鍾意佢,係朋友既立場都要盡可能關心佢,一個人既時候最易亂諗野架,如果你驚佢吾要你陪,倒返轉頭你約佢食飯之類,要佢陪你拉,多d同佢傾計拉

作者: conversekita 時間: 2005-8-11 12:45 AM

Originally posted by 藍 at 2005-8-11 12:39 AM:

甘你呢個時候多d action拉,就算吾...

嗯~我都覺得應該係咁~
唔知係咪真係人魚大魚多問題~
唉~~~~

作者: sysykiller01 時間: 2005-8-15 06:39 PM

好似d神父既老套說話
只需要一對聆聽既耳朵...
不過最好係拒唔開心果陣盡量哄到拒笑
盡量多d陪下拒
等拒解決好問題我諗拒都應該知道你對拒係點...
就算拒唔明白你既心意
但一齊對住咁耐總會日久生情既...

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