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教養 - so true!  Money, beauty, etc can all be taken away by other people or, even if you are lucky not to come across bad people, by time.  But if a lady has learning (knowledge or "book smarts") and class (people skills, EQ, compassion, knowing what to do or say at the right time), all this stays with her all through her life.  She can also help to pass it on to the next generation.