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發表於 2005-8-27 04:49 AM
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Marriage cost a lot of money for some people, close to nothing to other. It really depends on you and the other half's expectation.
I don't think you live in HK by the way you speak, so I don't think the rules in HK apply to you. If you are in a post grad program, I would say don't wait too long because as girl get older, they want to be married. I saw many perfectly fine couple broke up because the female want to get married but the guy is not ready yet. A engagement (with a ring) is a good way to go if you know you found the right person but the timing is not right yet.
The truth is, there is no "right" financial situation. You and your better half need to communicate about what's "right" for you 2.
I do not agree with most people that you need a house. Renting is perfectly ok. Sometime a house is right and sometime it does not make sense for some people. House is a fixed asset that you cannot liquildate quickly, so even if you have the money, you may not want to buy one. House is not just a place to live, it's an investment also. So, don't mix things up and get one solution. Marriage is marriage, house is house, no relationship at all. 
[ Last edited by johnwu on 2005-8-27 at 04:50 AM ] |
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