Hkwan

i think if u use her point of view to overview the whole situation
she must think u wanna sleep instead of picking her up
she want to see u after the stressful job
one girl 1 am go back home alone is kinda lonely and bad ge gum

i have had experienced your situation similarly b4
i talked to my gf afterwards
then she told me
wht she want
is just a bit of love showing

i think there's no a right or wrong ans in this situation
it's always hard ga
i think if things keep on happening
u should talk to her about it more
find a method to compromise

i can give u some advice
if you want to have a better relationship wif her
talk to her more
but u first few times u must needa show that u came and which cause u sleep less
but dont tell her directly that u feel bad
let her feel it and she should give u some break
tell her wht u want and ask wht she want
if she know u feel tired b/c to pick her up but she doesnt do anything
she's reli too bad

hope this may help u