kalos

Hey, haven't seen you for long~ How come you come back with this kind of problem lea...
To me, I won't encourage you to start (at the moment):
1/ You don't even know how she treat you as, maybe a normal fd or something...
2/ You guys didn't communicate at all, it's hard to know the deeper side of you guys' heart
3/ The most important thing is she has a bf n addicted to him, eventhough they have problems in their relationship, but addicted is addicted, if you can't handle it right/correctly, you'll leave her a bad impression.

What I suggest you to do is:
1/ If you really like her, then she should start it with get to know more about her such as what she really likes, what she thinks n what she wants...
2/ Let her to know more about you n what is your strength, let her know what you better than her bf, n let she has a chance to choose
3/ I you want to do the 1st 2 points successfully, then 1st of all is to fix the communicaton problem between you guys. If you guys not communicate, then nothing can go further, eventhough you two can be together, then there will be lots of silent n dead air...
4/ Once the problem fixed, tell us n we'll help you go further.

It's not that I wanna say something to hurt you but just want you to have a better beginning n get everythings prepared. Coz I don't want to see you screw that up by your leak of preparation.

Goodluck my fd, hope these can help you~

kalos

Originally posted by yeahchan at 2007-5-23 17:03:


she knows my strengths, and now...

Aiya, how come you sounds exhaust b4 start ga... We are here to look for your success ga~

Be more patient la, it takes time to know about a person. Eventhough it's your best fd, you've already spent a lot of time to know him well la.

If she doesn't like to speak, then you start 1st lor, find some topic to talk with her la.

eg: Ask her if she like to watch spiderman or something. It can helps you to know what type of movies she likes.
     Talk to her about TVB's drama let you know what types of drama she likes....

Find the topics 1st n talk to her, but don't over, ok? Otherwise it becomes annoying ga~

Finally, REMEMBER to show her how caring you're. Girls like guys take care of her ga, eventhough you may not get her this time, but maybe later lea~ Remember everything takes time ga, no need to rush, ok? Be patient~

Keep reporting to us ar~ Best wishes~

kalos

Originally posted by specificness at 2007-5-23 17:26:


好同意呢位講法！
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Very agree with specificness Bro's opinion, especially 慢工出細貨, that is what I just said in the above post, to do this, patient is very important ga~

Brother specificness is very good in this ga~ See how many reply posts he has in here then you'll know~ I can't really type Chinese, but he can. If you can't really understand what I'm saying, I reckon his opinion can absolutely help you~

kalos

Originally posted by specificness at 2007-5-23 17:46:


謝謝欣賞呀kalos兄！ 大家都係想幫到兄弟幫啫。你的意見也很不錯呢！有共鳴才是我們回覆最大的動力

Yeah, I read lots of your replys before, I was very agree with your opinions in the past but then I think our thoughts are very similar, after you reply, I can't reply any at all as you've already said what I thought. That's why I reply faster than you this time.

Looking forward to yeahchan's update lea, hope that we can really help him with this~

kalos

Originally posted by yeahchan at 2007-5-23 23:22:
thx kalos, specificness and sakura
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Aiya, then you have to really think about it b4 your start la, coz I'm  worrying that your actual feeling to her is like a best fd/sister wor~

Take more time to see how your real feeling to her is; n, if you can, imagine what'll happen if she's your gf n what about if she's your best fd. Make sure everything b4 start, ok?

If there's any issue, just talk to us la~

Best Wishes~