熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ d& Z! t  q8 G( Z9 `, ~
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) y! }0 K7 O9 Q0 j琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
7 _5 v" L0 O) g+ R4 U- @  h個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣; k$ b$ Y( U0 [7 t5 L$ O
覺得好空虛, v' l# H& T/ g  E3 `9 D9 Q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 q2 G, ~4 _0 B8 h1 N6 |8 E7 g卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, p1 l5 {$ e, e( `, O用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
# f% r! ^5 G" g+ n, l4 C" {8 S3 _2 o但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺0 y: ^, C4 ^& @9 a' m
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: q" v& k0 c- V' S: `% q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# J8 w( x  o) O$ o) x5 w( U$ g. D. p
日日有車站,
9 Z5 \# j& L6 E6 ]3 Y有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙6 Q+ w( M% u! n: ~" o
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& R( [9 _' S+ A* k& ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

* M' q8 W# K. W0 q我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
* Z3 S; x  E4 S* a5 F感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
. w; f* m% B" Y玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
* R  W; _3 g# N8 ~: ]7 k! `總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  z9 d) d6 P. j, V# V其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ J+ \4 m/ J7 L4 G/ D  Z5 ~
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,: F2 \! V/ L# o) r, h+ k
日日有車站,* ]( j0 N5 w& Y- P
有目標!

: I4 B4 G0 I* N7 h5 n4 u' y6 k' D. fwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# i/ X1 E( k9 H/ h8 e) M5 l如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?& p4 \5 ^* }6 A9 I
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 ^, T; A5 b2 p8 Z琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 c9 }$ T* Q7 i. B0 w個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% v1 j) E/ m3 [$ t9 ?1 c& z覺得好空虛
9 i9 ^; ]7 c( J! r* |其實早幾次都有試過係咁* ^# o+ I8 w7 s6 o4 I! J5 n% F7 X
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 s; C5 E. h, y5 }( [
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% C* R. L, a6 e/ Z+ g( R. F

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦./ ?% G) \6 v# Z& e& }
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ j0 |% ?' j3 N9 X5 j
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
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b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; c7 K8 k! p2 kc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.$ @5 U4 R0 S6 K% `2 o( u

' D% a- z& l/ [' _/ H  yJust another thought on lonliness:
& S; Q5 f) ?( A2 {9 J1 i) l0 M" E/ TLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....) Z1 o) h) L2 N! V, c
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( u+ `( {( }4 |, j! A  _! p
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺$ U2 d) V& a* J% u  S8 c1 m
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影6 B  o, y; M, D! ]& R/ x8 _2 s( u5 _% g
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～* b6 b: U) p6 v: _
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉3 v. K. t! o* S/ J
很少會超過一天～
/ r, b& p3 Q  M% @. U; L0 L, L' p要期待更好的明天呀！