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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
+ l$ G6 \+ a+ ]/ L) i. _. Wconsider in the following (not in order):. w" D' b7 N4 p( O& A7 o5 E
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
) G8 _/ d4 U4 E" R2nd, how serious he/she has done?
" `6 w; U, Y9 ]& P9 n0 e( e3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?# v) T$ T' Q' m0 j% J; f
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?2 P" b- X0 n# ]3 X- _

5 r7 i5 S% k/ @. O  U  l5 x7 q4 ffor me:
' |4 b* N- I1 N+ Y( ai may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.) M3 P9 r- Q$ z' |& e, m
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
3 v) I8 }8 V/ n# J0 Cbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!4 w6 t3 y# N/ v7 E
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。  T+ @' M' `2 Q$ I& v
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
0 s' `3 \' ?7 X' ^人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個: r+ ]+ z, S$ }- X5 u( ~
只要有數我都會滅