Gretzky

Originally posted by 奇 at 2005-6-11 02:57 PM:  h, k" u) H1 {, m" K

' d  e: n4 B% f/ ?, Y+ H) [# }一家唔知一家事,你有個好阿媽,是你的福氣

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That's well said....& R2 m8 [- q; g# i' h5 G

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I hope you are here to vent out your 'emotional excrement' about your parents. Our hopes are you are just fed up with them and are tired of their actions towards you. As many of us have mentioned, you're blessed to have a mother.
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I am doing some guessing here...9 M' T/ t9 {' A0 r3 X, l/ E

; C: x: D1 E1 |" f! o4 c$ bYou mother probably didn't know much about how to bring up a kid but she loves you very much. As you grow up she's getting more and more anxious about losing you to awful friends/drugs, etc...so her 'questioning' becomes more and more unbearable. Your response was to counter by confronting (words or w/out words) and that makes you mother even more controlling. While it's understandable (even pitiful) to have anger like yours, I hope at least appreciate your mother a bit more than what you've said (she's got nothing to be praised). Remember! She gave birth to you and fed you!
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+ d2 i$ r1 \3 y$ i% \5 [% S; Z/ [Let me give you a small piece of advice....cut and paste the comments here (including yours), print it out and keep it in your treasure box...along w/ a current pix of your mother...take them out again in a few years...(hopefully you mother is still around)....by that time I hope you would appreciate and love your mother a lot more than you are now.. x8 w8 I1 N. Q1 Z  }- B2 ~+ q. N
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左輪仔

你夠唔夠20歲呀??
4 Q2 j( y( d  g/ ^1 A4 u3 v1 U* d! ?6 W我諗你應該都係朵溫室小花黎.....

心冷之戀＊行

１６-_-吧了". ^. q# Z/ P7 A/ x
咁可能我-＿－未體會到啦”

月月鳥

其實大家都答左你,
) C3 T6 j: L* t希望你知錯,
$ j: ~* A. W9 x唔好再咁諗你父母

sfxc0000

聽下呢度咁多位bro.講啦, 希望呢度咁多位bro.o既說話能夠改變你依家o既想法啦

kaixinren

其實我在父母身邊個震都有你甘樣的感覺，但繫到oversea讀書之后就完全沒有啦。其實你個點問題大部分都繫溝通不足造成的，有點嘢一定要講清楚，唔好以為屋企人就好容易明白你。問問自己，如果他們什么都唔講，你又能明白他們幾多？3 @; ]# G' q2 n9 [: d

& D7 Q  C* k9 d# }  \: v1。乜都煩一餐．無論正經野．或者玩都煩5 ^7 ~" C" O% b) n% G% y: X+ f, U
2。一定要知道你係邊．幾時做乜．同邊個．幾點返
1 l) r: o9 E% V8 c3 Y3。疑心重到仆直
  j3 y. l: o2 f0 M4。永遠都唔信你講ｇｅ野2 r5 P. Q6 Q1 i3 q8 ~' ~4 w* G
5。成日屈你4 R1 Y7 {/ k% K
6。郁ｄ就鬧你乜鬧你物
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以上你提的，都繫因為屋企人信任不唔足。你要多多和他們溝通，上街前主動講做乜，同邊個，幾時返，而且要準時返。多做幾次，他們就不會問的啦。做事要有交代，做的好。他們就會慢慢的信任你。
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一開始繫覺得lose face，但你唔希望他們以后再唔信任你，就要這樣開始。

chk8667

我都覺得阿爸阿媽好煩.但諗下佢地辛苦..就letｉｔbe..自己做好d