熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 J0 e  C& ]# N- r$ P7 C好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& d) Q5 D# S8 F/ I- D  q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 @1 F; P' z( i& C
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 S# u7 @- U# z" u: |6 [
覺得好空虛( ]6 S3 m# U5 l5 [, S
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 L! L6 @' w8 i8 K4 _- t0 k0 x" M卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& M3 k& N3 O& H8 G( R0 I, R用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?+ e+ q  r3 ~: F6 X3 M1 V+ A
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
: \! a8 p# k. ]1 K; i$ [但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺6 u' t8 r+ {2 {9 M# K
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
: g4 _, V/ Q# K  L% M- [1 n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 i1 }; Y3 _; }4 o7 p3 K日日有車站," _+ b" s) j  F) m- D" k
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙, ~" R  B. y9 O
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 v# h0 c* D8 q1 ~
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶., w! Y; j& K9 V! v/ s3 G
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..% N) o1 H' _' Z5 w. }. J
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.1 O# n2 M0 [6 ?
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
, ^* g5 g) D" K% W) R其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, G% v3 B$ _9 L0 V. t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ L7 k2 ]; ]  b: E4 \) t! S% h
日日有車站,$ q7 D; u( L, M
有目標!

# r! W& V3 Y. w7 z2 Gwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 C# I8 J: b  T) a2 ~
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# [% @1 [( \2 T好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% d2 P& N9 y; y9 |9 l: a5 H3 |/ h琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 u+ z# ]: y, |! n
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
! b# s% k3 C' J& b! ]$ s覺得好空虛
8 _1 d  d! V+ ]- ?6 z4 z7 o其實早幾次都有試過係咁
+ e4 j. ^( g' c卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己9 W* N1 T- g5 p. u7 S* [
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% e6 B) w6 z5 {0 j

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.8 B; [: |; x# y2 P/ F
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
+ O: O3 L1 M) {有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.5 M3 R- Z3 t  B; N7 d
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
3 c% K7 N  s, {6 X' [1 |! fa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
) f/ X3 ?  U0 \+ w; z+ V) c. fb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
3 \0 O( {6 D% e% uc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess., O( z: f5 X: z& i. j) K# M

( ~7 \5 L. C1 q$ \( gJust another thought on lonliness:
6 `6 e4 Z& g; C7 U# |0 o& [$ c( e; xLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....  f- e( L& C0 C% J$ m4 d- }$ U$ g
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～. |  K; C+ I  j! G
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺% Z6 A0 v6 p, @9 r# _
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影; H6 e/ h/ u: S& ?, ~; D
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～+ V. y/ @) V& D% r, X
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
+ t8 Z# Z4 J) e' N. W: U- e很少會超過一天～
* S: B2 O8 F8 u, k. Y+ r$ Y+ M要期待更好的明天呀！