熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?$ S( R" l+ m) h1 g6 |2 D; r8 U
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ J6 s2 ]9 ?- P( W9 N" A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 Z# {- P( a$ [9 I. @+ t1 ~個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ M7 I8 Z/ {5 }9 U0 Q6 U) t覺得好空虛
9 N8 `0 T& Q$ k其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 s" [4 b2 z  \
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; Z) E% }) q& ]3 m1 i8 y9 I用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,! B5 x& A- ~3 a- z
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
* f5 w6 T8 E: W: n熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) ]; G4 l& X+ F0 G& O! Z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' O- h4 N7 @1 A# j2 o2 Z) m
日日有車站,6 k7 N+ }% m  ]
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙- R5 t/ k6 y* P
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 s6 }" @8 E0 _7 i5 `
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.6 C- B1 Y, a5 J/ S
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
3 g  p& B) r0 k" k玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.+ S% @# L# L7 m& }/ D
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
9 }; I, P4 U8 o# l/ S- _: V其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# T; M7 M0 h$ u% n! [
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# J, e$ a6 b" ?5 h$ z$ V2 {( i日日有車站,
$ N& P$ c6 m; t+ g有目標!

# K% m: e1 K1 H' H+ q& v/ C. \8 _  a. fwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, G7 W( h2 o8 a0 E如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 n+ U+ C+ L7 a5 g( O2 w* {: P. b
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& ^) l2 T# i2 b琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 V, W0 R0 ]# o" X7 d3 ^$ Y1 I& e個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 h1 O4 d- ]7 c# h  C覺得好空虛
2 u' G$ |! X, [2 j其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 Q5 H" i( [: x, R; s$ g卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, w9 P8 r, v" V7 q( O6 Q; P用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( B' M0 h$ G+ I' W4 H7 R/ @* g

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.# e+ K8 ^# `$ a. O
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
' E+ j1 j+ i: [, D; q: Y/ |; I, y: |有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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% F* w9 D* B  h) t6 NPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
% _, {7 c" e  t0 D! @" Fa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
9 c' P- Z5 c1 S3 `: i2 Sb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
0 ^0 f: I' z9 y# {3 [# s2 Kc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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8 [  n/ p* [$ x* W: S0 YJust another thought on lonliness:) e9 o) M8 }% A* E+ Y' N
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....5 [: u7 i. J# c3 B0 t& V1 H% f$ ^
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～4 E( P" H& M2 C! W  m
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺/ Y0 ~( n# }* p7 I+ T/ A+ H
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
* P2 w' y1 V5 a& ?+ |. I* ^或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
6 ^" j, U8 l$ J9 U: i, \& E/ b. O  w空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
6 _3 C) P' a1 D' @! m) @# k很少會超過一天～+ j7 \" z+ O; D# _  A
要期待更好的明天呀！