熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 C) j+ y5 D- M9 V, ~, Q好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) c& F" M7 F- y+ t) k琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
( h7 i1 X6 s6 S8 a8 p# n個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' [) y3 q+ o% @覺得好空虛
7 T* E) u+ U7 b- ^( A8 u6 c! m其實早幾次都有試過係咁: p# y. _0 x! D, \) s
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& L3 w' w2 }  U: _用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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7 x5 {+ i! B, k  y" m[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
' `: R: `; X6 J9 J7 Y但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
% ]( M* e$ y  [6 k  m- n: A熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) a, \: t2 n7 v3 ?所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& U1 \0 ^1 n8 p# P
日日有車站,$ k0 w9 v( i1 F6 t/ t
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
" T! r, Q  M- A4 P+ E你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 z' {% _% Z6 V
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

( ^1 M6 _* B3 C我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.# x9 v/ }8 \2 }
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..- V& ^; L& K0 v* x7 M: G5 y- {
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.1 B2 K) z: W. x5 r  ]. _2 K( {  M
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:% q( ]5 h- g% b5 G
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ I/ a2 R4 Z# C& ~2 T3 p
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 {8 N. c+ g& S4 q8 Z3 M日日有車站,* \& V6 f8 f* g5 z" m
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ j& @/ c! u+ t4 M0 [
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
/ ]6 I8 P- s3 J0 t  Q  S好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& v' P1 k- d* v& D- m( s1 N# U琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 y! w$ R2 o: h3 _
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣: r. \2 \% w  G' `0 U
覺得好空虛
/ l; b0 w! v0 c) I其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ H, [8 t. O: |
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; ~9 d- l) Y% i9 k. v0 p% o. l0 E
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.' M6 f" J2 D; N4 \; w
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
* i$ }6 f8 B$ w( N- U- s( b有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ n# ?. L1 x& {% s' {4 M6 k  Z7 B
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:- q2 t) W4 L' U4 N! `4 Q
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long/ \: ?- R/ O2 @2 }
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; J& n5 |5 j4 g! Tc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.# {: Q) O$ ]8 h# _3 g9 h4 J5 X

( ?3 Z  I! b  Y. K8 {$ p& cJust another thought on lonliness:
  O; z+ {/ ~* ~Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....' H- Q$ o( F+ A8 _( T- c
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～8 D8 A7 b+ [0 R  d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺/ s: ]. ^4 H3 j6 L1 j; ~$ H
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影( w. A+ q+ g; n8 `8 U
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～. W5 A- @6 T$ A/ Z# W+ Y
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉- J, r, @6 A- z# D) O
很少會超過一天～9 H9 E" Z. |( o1 T! R* D
要期待更好的明天呀！