熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
, L5 D+ C, B- n# ^6 a2 v4 ]* N好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 X3 I/ u* [' L- G
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 B2 t; `% g3 j+ @& T個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 _9 Q8 b1 E& O7 y9 W覺得好空虛
7 ]1 A) }* w' s& A其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 G. \) E" K8 v, ~! x9 k& A" r
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己( ?8 w+ _7 @! k* k
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
  {, p# C" i( H3 F) w但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺5 {8 W9 s. N: q* s/ T
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 j, O- _6 _2 {6 Z2 t3 z2 K5 g所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 p/ Q0 m1 ^9 r$ z日日有車站,
) Y8 k) e% \$ G, k& O& O有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
, w& Q; `$ D5 B3 s5 |9 z你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) w7 R. e) d( L* d
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

# H5 ^0 M6 O' u  c我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.) ^+ v' E- G" N7 g
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( e2 P9 N% C; a* P. T" Z玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
4 N" k. W2 p: r其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* v) `, B7 [% b3 K
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% ^( V; w0 S8 V& `! u
日日有車站,; U( C+ k; m' d
有目標!

& Z, m0 {" i% bwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% o' M8 M* x  Q; a( B- u% H% D9 ?如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?- k" U; ~) `. {' x5 G' X1 @
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- V  {# r7 V% q% o琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心. ~9 o1 a$ K# B2 G5 k$ V  ~
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) E  s7 N# N+ f$ |
覺得好空虛
/ p. ~9 M5 s5 f其實早幾次都有試過係咁; c% @6 q6 G& _# P
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; F' k* `8 O6 m6 n7 ~1 w用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 X2 [4 f9 F9 }$ ^, T

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1 i- F  W# H* t這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.6 c' J: V9 R: X- f& I0 G- [' J: T4 _
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.( d( J( ~) b& s7 E5 k
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) |* l( i2 ^: ?( Z3 t

' e. ~4 N0 ]- X5 k8 k% lPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:$ ~  g$ a& N0 I6 _# [: N9 _
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long% w% R$ [2 r* H/ p! g. Q6 @; S
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.  \' }" a# _9 }1 z0 |
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.6 M! E$ N, E" ]4 Q' m% ~2 D( P
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Just another thought on lonliness:+ J8 r/ L) b6 B# N+ I9 @
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....- g$ ]2 A+ X4 d, x* \9 S
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～) S+ z$ _/ X8 m$ O+ H$ E7 E2 j( d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
/ _! W. Z2 j) o0 M9 y; [: M2 A% b就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
; o; Z: j7 N& o7 h# [  K或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
, ~9 e: `; I2 F. d# M空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
. s% q& p& U/ K: p- j: ~! e$ y) U很少會超過一天～
( \+ N4 f: B+ B( ?2 I要期待更好的明天呀！