熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 l1 V6 n9 x, M2 `好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 r3 r" F- k  B0 r
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( M, v3 j+ e' A8 L
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( ^7 e+ C9 h  R$ i0 _, R
覺得好空虛
( C2 ^+ F9 f8 {7 W/ W9 `6 |) h" Z其實早幾次都有試過係咁" ?4 L, U. D  z& y2 i
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
- W4 Y. z3 ?1 C& Q! x: O) l5 I8 ?用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% X" U  O+ Y$ q
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺5 h/ x; A! l( ^; I9 L" v3 X3 X
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 \# p4 E: Y6 r% [- e2 D$ s& v
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 q- H* ^; _: O% |3 X
日日有車站,
) R; y' P1 e# c0 e6 }$ x有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙1 S* N! l9 q: E0 J9 O
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% y3 B4 Y1 N& b& Z' x# `3 V7 u如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

6 T+ w& w) m; t我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
* t! _" w$ m, @# G7 \% j感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞... x9 q7 e7 ~5 w/ C. ?
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
3 s; ?! o0 Q, J總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
4 q5 \+ m% v  R* n/ Y其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ l1 z) u  F) f( [
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
* p) @- p; {7 j! l日日有車站,& d4 Q; k. V. @1 }
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( M% l& B* q8 _# J. {
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 @* C4 t$ d  Q1 ]6 g1 B
好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 _1 `7 [: ^$ k# }5 u' E4 B1 q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  B% Z4 S; T) X5 C1 ^+ G* y個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% D* g$ b2 t- I覺得好空虛! P' p2 s, F, \$ G$ v
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# A3 T# J  `+ ]( \  W; C/ e
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 m( |( s) z' F3 k用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ h& M4 h& Q, T8 d0 h0 R; F7 Y3 x
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
5 H7 V  j3 e: w4 t! g有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.5 n# d( N0 F6 N1 P, G1 @
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:$ y+ ?( ], E! [& y% ~
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long( U& t  \' V7 ?
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
, u0 S2 g1 Y- g+ w/ Uc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
' D* P6 j: v! XLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
7 V  H: ?% x( E* A! y6 Q3 Y5 @But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
4 Y; A( ?7 m. ^- Z' h我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～" _4 h/ Y- _- y. q: Z
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉- Y, o* _5 D* @5 K4 q
很少會超過一天～
$ o1 }) m+ a: l0 \2 `- _$ p要期待更好的明天呀！