熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 ], j9 I1 ~* I3 m4 t' x5 O6 j好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 l5 s1 a8 Q5 M$ i% C0 h4 _琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 D7 y% H- @' v# s5 o8 w* p個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
  z" R3 }; H$ g* E" F& Z! U覺得好空虛
' Q) Q& D' e' M/ y$ E7 j  p2 V其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, M! _7 _) `+ \+ {卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ I, b/ v- A5 ^8 N) b: k
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 J9 F1 x* Z  ]/ y- M! ]3 l
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,4 B9 u% _0 C$ y9 K* B
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ L' b7 M  ]+ B' A熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,0 G+ A/ x- c+ p) L* T: g- P: R* H1 y
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 R. |2 z. ?; ?0 k日日有車站,: M$ R4 y5 k6 D# R7 B0 V8 j' |8 C
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙6 W- `1 |) m* c$ A; C
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:7 K4 m6 X7 K  B+ S6 M! T+ Q
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 s. ~7 g! f& g9 Z1 S7 @我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
& W& ^6 ^" C! N$ R' H5 [1 ]8 r感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
1 A: |* [9 V( J2 @玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.2 y8 S5 y) `# D0 @
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
& y3 X7 s" a! g2 n+ o# ^, s其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* X9 Z  A$ x* w7 c' A+ {所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 {% E7 l* F( d( H' p) ~日日有車站,# P- V' `; |- d7 }) [# \( n2 _
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:, `  R! G3 u2 N- @! M
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. @4 ?# y2 s) t. L. [
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 T; O; ]; J: m& W琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
/ X: L3 I* U3 F! \# E( _! J7 v個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
& B2 R( P1 a  M$ c$ x/ R覺得好空虛
2 _# R" a* [& g, Z其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 [6 t& p0 Z3 W9 x$ G. I; w' H& p
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 J2 L3 q# h; F8 c用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.8 n) @( c5 ]% x# Q* N
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
  `# ~6 x; _6 `0 o$ P$ o有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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5 F+ y0 q, G# f9 O6 Y) I6 {3 ?People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
  ?, x- s: A$ ]1 Qa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
( i. H$ M; _1 ob) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.- V# d) q4 Z6 k% K( V7 Z+ b
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:* A/ F) b7 \4 J* A( K2 x
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
, Z& V& n0 H: S1 X) }" j/ N6 ]6 RBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～3 b+ o" a( D" T/ k% H) J: Z3 ?
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺" h0 ^! ?2 o- f: c
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影% D5 y8 q  @6 A1 H- H! Z  C
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～; E# O( d5 m9 t) p7 c# f" }7 v% B
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
) Z7 Q, L) g" F; P; h8 N( o5 F3 `0 W很少會超過一天～6 J7 {' }. ?0 X3 _3 }1 `
要期待更好的明天呀！